How Is Math Taught Today?

On my way home from a seminar today, I stopped into the grocery store to pick up supplies for stir-fry. The elderly lady in front of me in the checkout line bought a container of cookies that totaled $3.03 with tax. She handed the young cashier a $20 bill and three pennies.

The cashier gave her $17.97 in change.

The lady tried to give the coins back, but the cashier couldn't understand. The supervisor standing at the end of the counter helping to bag the groceries didn't understand either. The lady gave up and took the extra money.

I admit, I thought to myself when I saw the money being exchanged that I rarely see cash as a form of payment anymore. Is this an indication of how little cash is used now? Did the cashier not know what to do because she rarely handles cash? Even so, this was an easy math problem........

My Hair Is Returning!

My hair is growing back, much faster than I expected. It's mostly gray fuzz, but I have hair again!

The worst part about hair loss following chemotherapy is losing your eyelashes, in my opinion. My eyes watered all the time! I felt like I constantly needed to explain that I wasn't crying - I truly did have dust or something in my eyes.

I'm holding on to my scarves and hats for now. This summer has been so hot and humid that I've been forgoing wearing any, but I'm guessing that's going to change in another month. I hope that when I do decide I'm done with the hats and scarves, I'm able to find somewhere to donate them.

Mod Mod Mona Swap

I'm Saying No to Southwest Airlines.

I had a less-than-satisfactory experience flying Southwest Airlines in June. I paid a premium price to receive expedited check-in, along with first boarding privileges. I didn't receive the benefits, and felt like a fool for paying extra. When Southwest sent an email thanking me for the business and soliciting feedback, I decided to go ahead and tell them about my experience flying their airline. I also told them I felt that I had been ripped off, and I would go out of my way to avoid using their services again. This is the reply I received:

"Dear April,

I am so sorry that you feel you weren’t able to enjoy the benefits of your Business Select Fare on your June 26 flight.  As a valued Southwest Customer, your feedback is very important to us.  I am grateful for this opportunity to respond to your concerns and, of course, apologize.

While we, of course, offer preboarding to any Customer with specific seating needs or who need assistance boarding, out of respect for all of our Customers and to maintain the integrity of our boarding/seating system, these Customers should only have one additional person accompany them onboard the aircraft.

We do not have a policy that prohibits saving seats; however, when other Customers inquire about the availability of a particular saved seat, we would hope that our Customers would stick to the “Golden Rule.”  That said, we sincerely regret this particular Customer diminished the quality of your flight experience with us.

Furthermore, we regret that you feel you didn’t receive the highest level of Customer Service at the San Diego (SAN) ticket counter.  All Southwest Airlines Employees are expected to be friendly, helpful, and, above all else, courteous to all of our Customers who are kind enough to grant us their business. It is clear that you are disappointed with the Customer Service you received, and we are sorry that your experience was not indicative of the considerate and professional service that we strive to provide.

We appreciate your providing us with the details of your experience, and our Staff has ensured that your correspondence has been properly indexed and attributed to the appropriate areas. Additionally, your comments have been summarized and provided to our Senior Leaders for their review.

Your business means the world to us. It's our hope that you will continue flying Southwest Airlines for many years to come.

Sincerely,

Shawn, Southwest Airlines"

The customer with specific needs referred to in the note was a person in a wheelchair who needed preboarding privileges. I understand that need, and have no issue with that need. However, this particular customer put jackets, purses and bags across the first three full rows (on both sides of the cabin) for a total of twelve seats, saving them for her family - who boarded in the last group.

This response does not give me warm fuzzies, nor does it make me feel like they appreciate my business. Accordingly, they won't be getting any further business from me.

Photographers at Tourist Traps

It's a common experience: you walk into the entrance of the theme park and a camera is thrust into your face. "No charge! You only buy it if you like it!" Even worse are the cruises or other attractions where you're contained and you can't board until they take your photo. 

Unless you really want this token of remembrance, just say no, people! Say no, forcefully if needed, and walk by!

How many trees are killed with these printed photos people don't buy? How many chemicals are used in the processing?

I believe the model needs revamping. Digital photography is everywhere. Print-on-demand services proliferate. Change it up so the photos aren't printed until the patron says yes.

I'd be more likely to stand there and let you take the photo if I knew it wasn't going to be printed. Give me a chance to see a digital representation right after you take it, and once again after the attraction if I didn't buy it the first time I saw it, but please don't print it if I don't want it.

Ok, I'm done with my rant for the day.

Independence Day

Thanks to our long-time friend, Tom Farley, the meaning of this holiday has been weighing heavily on my mind for the last few days. He posted a statement on Facebook:   

"Here's a simple act of patriotism for this weekend: Don't call it 'the Fourth of July.' Call it 'Independence Day.' It's not just another day on the calendar, right?"

Yes, this is right. 

I'm thankful I'm an American citizen. I have a list of basic rights by simply being born in this country. Across the globe many people, especially women and children, cannot claim these same rights. All I did to claim these rights is to be lucky enough to be born in the correct geographic location. Millions of people have died to keep our country free and allow all born here to claim these basic human rights.

The least I can do is honor the holiday with its correct name, Independence Day.

How Much Is Enough?

I admit I don’t want it all.

Sometime in the last few decades, American society decided women should want to do everything under the sun: marry, raise children, have careers, participate in their children’s activities and take time for health and exercise, among other things. I’ve heard this idea referred to as being “Wonder Woman.” Didn’t anyone ever notice that Wonder Woman didn’t have children?

I’m 42 years old. I am unable to have children of my own. I have no wish to adopt. Somehow, this makes me either worth pity or selfish and in need of feeling guilt. I ask why?

I have a fantastic husband, a dream job with a great company, good friends and family nearby. We have a mortgage and car payments, but no credit card debt. We can travel when we want. We spoil our nieces and nephew. We donate to charity. I feel fulfilled. This life, to me, is the definition of “having it all.”

My husband and I tired of hearing “when are you going to start a family?” about fifteen years ago. We ordered special license plates for our cars that read NO KIDZ in response. That did stop a lot of people from asking but it didn’t stop the pity, nor did it stop the guilt trips.

“You don’t know what you’re missing until you see it through your child’s eyes.” Maybe. However, I know I’m not missing dirty diapers, crying tantrums, the colds that pass around the family non-stop or always being tired. I don’t doubt there are many rewards when you’re a parent. I see it with family and friends. I still don’t believe that being a parent is for me. I resent the implication that I’m less of a person or that I’m selfish because I don’t want children.

My husband is not pitied for being childless, nor is he made to feel guilty for choosing not to be a parent. All I ask for is the same respect for the choices I’ve made.